5 ways to seeking the right person

 

There is no perfect person. In fact, I’ve always been told that even if he or she was perfect they would become tainted by our imperfections. So, strive to be with someone who although flawed they are still perfectly right for you.

What really matters is that you you are both responsible for each other and creating the right relationship should be the utmost goal. 

You met each other, love each other deeply and start preparing for marriage. And then after marriage, you begin to wonder if that is the person you were in love with sometimes ago. You begin to question yourself with no answer for such questions. 

The important fact to note here is that, no matter how you love each other, when you start birthing children, the love will automatically be transferred into them. When this happens, prayers and understanding is what you need the most. 

However, we've come up with some ways to help you curb the negativity existing in relationships and especially marriages. 

They are as follows :

1. Make sure you’ve prayed about that person. 

It’s awesome that you have met this great guy with a wonderful sense of humor, but don’t neglect prayer. 

Through prayer, God has a way of giving us the wisdom we need to weed out all the wrong things in our lives. 

2. Make sure you have peace about that person. 

One of the worse kind of decisions to make is the kind you have no peace about. If you are confused and your heart is troubled about saying yes, don’t say it. 

Mr. Right should leave you with peace – not a pseudo feeling that you only feel when you are in his presence and Mrs. Right shouldn't see you as a povert alleviation scheme. 

3. Make sure the person meets God’s standards first. 

As a believer, it’s not enough that he/she attends church on a regular bases or can quote a number of scripture passages. 

God’s standards always starts with Him as the foundation. With that love relationship intact, loving you will be easy.

4. Make sure that person meets your standards (core values). 

This can only be accomplished by first knowing you.

Who are you? What means the most to you in life? What are your convictions? What are you passionate about? What key morals you live by? All of these questions are necessary because if you don’t know the answers, it’s going to be rather difficult to tell if he’s meeting them. (Core Values)

5. Make sure you’re going in the same direction (vision/purpose). 

Knowing who you are is one thing, but knowing where you’re going is another. Get clarity on what you’ve been called to do in life. If God is going to send the right person your way, you can be assured that somehow your purposes in life will mesh together.

One of the worst things to do is to end up getting married to someone who doesn’t encourage, support or find interest in the things that mean the most to you. I believe these few things should get you well on your way to knowing your Mr & Mrs Right. If nothing else, it should definitely help in eliminating all the wrongs.