11 ways husband should love his wife

1. LISTEN TO YOUR WIFE. 

You should be concerned about her thoughts and stories. A woman wants a husband she can open up to. An emotional companion. 

As the head of the home, you should know when to hold back your tongue to prevent things from escalating especially when she is moody. 

2. COMMUNICATE WITH HER. 

As the husband, you should learn the art of communication; face to face and over the phone. Learn to check up on her, to engage, to chat her up and keep loneliness away. 

Give her direction. Where you are going as a couple and family. 

3. STAY FAITHFUL AND BOOST HER SELF ESTEEM. 

You should show commitment to the vision of your love through faithfulness. Leading from the front publicly and privately. Keeping off other women. 

You should make her believe in herself more, drowning her doubts, allaying her fears, reminding her who she is when she forgets, lifting up her spirits when she feels low, making her feel sexy and beautiful when she does not feel all that. 

4. PURSUE AND SERVE HER. 

He should date his wife no matter how long they have been together. Make her feel special, compliment her, flirt with her, pursue her, romance her, excite her heart, treat her like a Queen.

You should put your ego aside and attend to your wife and family even without being asked, anticipating their needs, being their hero. To lead is to serve. 

5. PRAY AND COMFORT HER. 

You should cover your wife and children in prayer. Be a prayer warrior in the spiritual realm, committing your family to your maker, putting on the full armour and going to war, accessing the spiritual blessings meant for your family. 

You should be a shoulder for her to lean on when she cries, the person she runs to when this world overwhelms her. Her cover. 

6. PROVIDE AND ENCOURAGE HER. 

Whether she earns more than him or not, you should play your part in meeting the needs of the family and seek ways to get more provisions and investments. 

You should be her voice of reason. The firm voice that counters her negative voices or the storms that shake her. You should be that man who tells her "I believe in you honey. You can do this". 

7. GIVE PEACE AND PROTECT HER. 

He should be a peace maker, knowing how to calm tense moments and avoid drama. 

This world can be tough for a woman; his mother, his sister, his friends, her friends, her boss, strangers might attack her. You should have the ability to keep her safe and make her feel she has an ally. 

8. CREATE HUMOUR AND TOUCH HER. 

He should know how to be her clown, how to mine for laughs out of her, how to make her smile, how to make her remember him when he is far from her and find herself smiling all by herself. 

He should understand how sensitive a woman's skin is and how it loves to be touched. He should learn the non verbal communication of touch, how to rub her back, hold her waist, stroke her skin and cuddle up with her. 

9. DEFEND HER FROM YOURSELF. 

A man can become his wife's worst enemy. The pain you can cause her if you chooses to harm her physically, emotionally, sexually or financially is too great. You should make sure you do not become her worst mistake. 

10. INSPIRE, HELP AND SUPPORT HER. 

Your words carry so much weight. Words of appreciation and encouragement are enough to keep her going. You should keep refueling and recharging her. 

You should care about her dreams and life goals and be her purpose partner, helping her be the best version of herself. You should ease her load and help out at home. Act as a team. 

11. GIVE HER STABILITY AND SECURITY. 

He should make sure that he is consistent, being her constant, a steady hand. When a woman is given clarity, she lets down her guard and releases her love

You should offer confidence, vision and leadership. 

CONCLUSION 

As a man and the head of the family, it is your responsibility to show the above written ways to your wife. 

You should also have the ability to be vulnerable, to need your wife, to allow her to do the above things to him, to be there for him, to trust her with his issues and to give her room to love him. Women love being valued.